This is one of the most searched questions on Google.
Us girls wonder too much and stress over, if a guy that we like feels the same way.
There are countless blogs and websites that give tips like, ‘If he makes eye contact for more than 3 seconds it means he wants to marry you’. They all annoy me. And I am guilty. I have looked at these blogs and websites and even thought to myself ‘OMG! He actually likes me!’.
These blogs and websites are miss-leading and are just a stupid assumption made by people. It is actually quiet offensive to men, as it shows them as a gender who all act the same and do the same actions. Men act in different ways and show different signs. It is like going to a website which generalises women, we would all get offended by it!
So I am going to tell you THE ONLY WAY to know if a guy likes you.
Speak to him.
I don’t mean speak to him and see how he acts around you. I mean speaking to him, become an acquittance and after a while, let him know you like him. If he likes you back he will make a move. If he doesn’t he will tell you he doesn’t feel the same. If he isn’t sure he will tell you.
Also, if a guy likes you, he might have a girlfriend and is just making eye-contact with you because he thinks you are cute but has no intentions of taking it further. You would not know this if you don’t speak to him.
You could also get a friend to ask for you but that is slightly childish.
Good Luck with your crush! =]