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How to know if he likes you

This is one of the most searched questions on Google.

Us girls wonder too much and stress over, if a guy that we like feels the same way.

There are countless blogs and websites that give tips like, ‘If he makes eye contact for more than 3 seconds it means he wants to marry you’. They all annoy me. And I am guilty. I have looked at these blogs and websites and even thought to myself ‘OMG! He actually likes me!’.

These blogs and websites are miss-leading and are just a stupid assumption made by people. It is actually quiet offensive to men, as it shows them as a gender who all act the same and do the same actions. Men act in different ways and show different signs. It is like going to a website which generalises women, we would all get offended by it!

So I am going to tell you THE ONLY WAY to know if a guy likes you.

Speak to him.

I don’t mean speak to him and see how he acts around you. I mean speaking to him, become an acquittance and after a while, let him know you like him. If he likes you back he will make a move. If he doesn’t he will tell you he doesn’t feel the same. If he isn’t sure he will tell you.

Also, if a guy likes you, he might have a girlfriend and is just making eye-contact with you because he thinks you are cute but has no intentions of taking it further. You would not know this if you don’t speak to him.

You could also get a friend to ask for you but that is slightly childish.

Good Luck with your crush! =]

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=[ (=D pt. 3).

If you haven’t already, read my posts =D  & =D pt. 2 before reading this.

So, I purchased two tickets to see Jeremy Passion in London on the 31st of March. Since none of my friends listen to Passion, I didn’t want to go by myself so I thought, I’ll purchase two tickets and then figure out who to go with. That’s when I realised that I could ask the guy that I like!

I had it all planned out! I would ask him on Friday (yesterday).

So I went into uni, and the weather was amazing! Everyone was out on the grass on campus and having some cool drinks. Then, I saw him! He looked so hot! Then he disappeared and showed up with a girl. The girl I always used to see him with. They were holding hands, hugging, kissing and it was so heart breaking. =[

I also found out that someone I know has known him since college. I asked her a few questions about him (I know it sounds stalker-ish!). She mentioned a long term relationship. But like I said in my previous posts, he said that he was single. Now he is back with her.

I don’t know if I am happy that I didn’t ask him out or ‘make a move’, or if I regret not doing anything.

The first thing I thought was, I should have said something. But then I thought about what would have happened if I did say something. I would have still got hurt. If it went well, we would have went out on a date, got to know each other more, I would fall for him even more and then he would have gotten back together with his ex.

But now I am thinking, what did I have to lose? It could have went the other way and I might have been with him now.

Now, I am kicking myself because this isn’t the first time this has happened to me with a guy. I am too shy. And even with all my friends telling me to go and talk to him I didn’t have the guts to. And I really need to grow some balls.

It’s very rare for me to like someone so much. Every time I do like someone that much, I don’t get anything out of it.

I know it’s rich coming from me, since I have no balls but, girls, please, if you like someone, do something about it because if you don’t another girl who is more confident will get him. I wish I had seen that sooner. And the worst thing that could happen is that you will know that he doesn’t feel the same. That is actually a good thing because you know where you stand and you have closure.

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Flirting

I’m really bad at flirting. So I can’t tell when people are flirting with me. =S

I don’t know if it’s something you learn or something that comes naturally, But I haven’t learnt it or it never came to me!

Why can’t my friends make a signal to me when someone is flirting?! Every group of friends should have a sign which means ‘flirting’. It would make life so much easier!

Maybe it’s just me & my awkward self?

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=D pt 2!

I’m getting into the ‘pt 2’ a lot lately! Maybe that’s what the main aspect of my blog should be?!

Please read ‘=D’ a previous post before you read this!

Today I found out that a friend asked the guy I like if he is single or not, he said, yes! He is single!!
Then she told him that I think he is hot/cute! She said he smiled and blushed! What am I supposed to make of that?!
It could be that he is blushing because he likes me too! (which is the reason I prefer!)
Or it could be that he got embarresed & thinks it’s funny that I think I stand a chance, so turned red as an outcome of holding his laughter in! (very likely). =[

I don’t know which one it is. I hate the butterflies I get whenever I think of him! =[

So please wish me luck & give me suggestions on what to do next!