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How to know if he likes you

This is one of the most searched questions on Google.

Us girls wonder too much and stress over, if a guy that we like feels the same way.

There are countless blogs and websites that give tips like, ‘If he makes eye contact for more than 3 seconds it means he wants to marry you’. They all annoy me. And I am guilty. I have looked at these blogs and websites and even thought to myself ‘OMG! He actually likes me!’.

These blogs and websites are miss-leading and are just a stupid assumption made by people. It is actually quiet offensive to men, as it shows them as a gender who all act the same and do the same actions. Men act in different ways and show different signs. It is like going to a website which generalises women, we would all get offended by it!

So I am going to tell you THE ONLY WAY to know if a guy likes you.

Speak to him.

I don’t mean speak to him and see how he acts around you. I mean speaking to him, become an acquittance and after a while, let him know you like him. If he likes you back he will make a move. If he doesn’t he will tell you he doesn’t feel the same. If he isn’t sure he will tell you.

Also, if a guy likes you, he might have a girlfriend and is just making eye-contact with you because he thinks you are cute but has no intentions of taking it further. You would not know this if you don’t speak to him.

You could also get a friend to ask for you but that is slightly childish.

Good Luck with your crush! =]

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Flirting

I’m really bad at flirting. So I can’t tell when people are flirting with me. =S

I don’t know if it’s something you learn or something that comes naturally, But I haven’t learnt it or it never came to me!

Why can’t my friends make a signal to me when someone is flirting?! Every group of friends should have a sign which means ‘flirting’. It would make life so much easier!

Maybe it’s just me & my awkward self?

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Besties!

I had the best coversation today! With one of my friends I’ve known since 2001. We had the best time! It wasn’t even a conversation!

We were on Whats App & instead of just speaking, we were using smiley faces! It was the funniest thing!

I guess it was one of them ‘you had to be there’ moments.

The point is, I love my friends from secondary school! They are the only people I can act silly around & instead of thinking, ‘why are we friends with her?’ they join in with me!

Tanzy, Fiaza (the one I whatsapp with), Toni, Izzy & Ilky, I love you girls! We’ve had our ups & downs but you girls mean the world to me! I love you more than you know!!

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Forever Alone.

Valentines day is in a weeks time.

I’ve never really cared about being single on Valentines. This year I am feeling it. Maybe it’s because I like someone? Most of my friends have someone? I don’t know. It’s kinda depressing though!

There should be a day where people who are single get recognision rather than being left out & excluded. -_-

Anyway, if you don’t have a date yet, join the club! & don’t give up, there are 7 more days & if you don’t find one, who cares?! Atleast you save money!

If you have a valentine, do you only show love to one another when it’s valentines day?!

=]